Thanks for the good news! I will check them out!!! I bet she is adorable!

I'll prob. think about, talk to the L before I would decide anything. I just got 2 nasty emails, one about me obstructing him Tuesdays! (how many is that???) and another re: S15 leaving his sneakers (he needs for PE) at his place yesterday. Upset that I didn't check to make sure he had them. (I remind him each day but he forgot yesterday.) He asked me why I haven't spent my child support money on clothes & shoes for the kids? Gee, probably b/c I spend the money on food, gas, bills, medicines, copays, etc. (I spend $0 on myself other than bills and food and we're living on hot dogs, ramen noodles, etc.)

S15 called him at 6 this am and X didn't answer (b/c I could have picked them up on the way to his school). He called at 7 and said he was out running, so not at his apt. S15 didn't want to go to PE his 1st period b/c of the shoes, (he only has sandals here), so I let him go in 50 minutes late. I mean, some of this is b/c he only has one pair of shoes at his 2 places he lives. It was bound to happen. I emailed X that I will buy S15 shoes when I cash the check today (he was supposed to give it to me today). I ignored all the other stuff which will piss him off even further I'm sure, although not my intention.

The silver lining is: I get some nasty emails from X each week, but at least I'm not facing all his anger on a daily basis like I used to. And life otherwise is pretty much perfect....


Last edited by karen43; 10/15/09 05:53 PM.

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