The last sentence, "enough for today please."

It doesn't get any clearer than that. Let her alone. Don't plan getaways or romantic dinners or any of that stuff. Read. His Needs Her Needs and Boundaries for Marriage.

Wait for her to come to you. You are still in the house. She said she is working on herself. Let her do it without your help.

As for another man, well, you can drive yourself crazy worrying about it or think back to the independent person you were when you two first met. Rediscover that guy. Is there a project you always wanted to do? If so, throw yourself into it while you wait.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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