Stronger that is great advice. And that is what I need to do. As I was trying to not contact her at all got into it with her yesterday. She had again used another friends baby shower as a excuse to drop of the kids for me next week 2 days early. On a thursday instead of a the usual sunday. We got into it again. Threats about child support and taking them away from me again. I wasn't afraid this time of her threats. Instead I just re forward our conversation from monday to her. She didn't text back. I haven't contacted her all day today and since mid afternoon yesterday.

I'm going to have to do exactly what you said. What I have been doing isn't working. I need to do something that is. I know it was a big step for her to admit what she did but it seem like she already forgot about it on weds.


Me:27
W:24
S:2
D:9 months
M:3 years
Together for 8 years
Bombed : 6/11/09
Moved out: 6/27/09
Found out about her affair 9/7/09
(she started her's at 6/25/09)
Begged n plead 7/25/09
started DB 8/17/09