I dont want constant attention, but maybe answering my agreeing to meet him for drinks with a "ok, Im looking forward to it!" Or some kind of acknowledgement.
I think you're totally right!!! I think it's ok to give him another chance, but if he pulls that again or something else not great, then drop him for good. I worry about us settling for losers or almost-losers. We've already been there, done that, so time for us find good guys now...And you deserve the best!!! I hope you have a great time this weekend!!!
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
I had fun, I dont think that Ill see him again. But it was nice to get out there!
I just found out that H had his permanent fund deposited into my checking account. He never changed the account! I dont know what to do. Im not going to spend it. But I dont think that Ill offer it up either. Its been almost 2 years. I cant beleive that he didnt put his own account on the direct deposit form. I dont even want to talk to him! If he asks about it Ill send it to him, I have all of his bank info so I could just transfer it... maybe thats what I should do, I dont necessarily have to talk to him. It would be nice to keep that extra $1300 though!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
Good for you for getting out. (O'dog isn't ready but maybe someday).
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
On a side note, I know someone who works for APD. Would you like me to ask if he has any inside info on the hiring freeze?
I'll keep my ear open for jobs with uniforms and badges.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
O'dog, I saw what you wrote on your thread about the hiring freeze, that makes sense, Ive seen them talking about money woes on the news. Sure, ask your friend, if you wouldnt mind!
Ill have time to transfer the money to H tomorrow. I hope that he sees it and wonders... but he doesnt check his account very often, I wish that I had so much money I didnt have to worry! Which brings me to my next point, I am also selling his snow tires! I may not get to keep his dividend, but by god Im getting something from him. Hes in VA, it doesnt snow there! I would love to keep his dividend, but I dont want to give him a reason to have to contact me.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
I have decided that I want to get my papers filled out and in process before the new year. I want 2010 to be free from this nonsense. I am ready to be done! Hopefully Ill be able to find a job so I can support myself. Thats what Im waiting for I guess. And I really feel like once Im actually D I can really start to recover, I will only be able to get so far having this hanging over my head.
I filled out another job app the other day, and Im keeping my eye out for another one that should be posted any day now.
O'dog, I just saw today that the local PD is hiring... I might go for it...
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
I sent a note to my friend and I'll let you know what he says. But don't wait around for A-town if your town is hiring.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
There is definitely a hiring freeze. I have heard they want an academy in 2010..." (rest of message in the alt.)
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
Thanks O'dog, I got your note on FB. I have thought about applying for the HPD position, but honestly, I know a lot of people in this town from working at the liquor store, and I would be a little nervous about working in such a different capacity!
I talked to H today, he was kind enough to extend my car insurance for another 6 months. Im actually really thankful for this. I cant afford to get my own policy. I have to carry full coverage because my car is financed. Ive thought about selling it and buying a beater, but I really need a good car, I commute about 40 miles a day, and thats Alaska miles, not just down the road, theres snow and moose, no streetlights, and all kinds of things. And I dont owe that much more on it, buying a reliable beater would cost at least the 7k more that I owe on my subaru... plus, I really like it!
I, however, am not happy that I had to talk to him today. We exchanged 5 text messages, thats the most that we have talked since he visited. I really hope that I can get my paperwork filed soon.
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...
I hope you have a great time this weekend!!!