Hi, do nothing, do not contact her at all. Let her say whatever she would like about you not being a gentleman...just ignore it.
I have been where you are. the only reason I talked to H during that time was if there was an emergency with our children. I would not call him for anything else! If I needed someone or something I had friends and family I could count on. I even had a friend I would call everytime I wanted to contact H.
The LRT worked for me. H told me two days after we had been in court for our D that he wanted to stay married. that was 6/07. our marriage is much better for it, he is a much better father and he was in MLC to a tee!!
