Okay, Mish, sorry for the total hijack, but Dday, I totally see how you would do that, b/c I tend to be like that too, all about the kids. But if she continually says no to their ideas or plans, I don't think that's good for them, is it? And I think at some level maybe bothers you too? I think most families after D don't do stuff together; just a reality you could talk with them about?
