You do realize when you bring up OM all you do is push her right in his arms? Right now she does not view you as married and the more you push the idea on her that she is betraying the marriage the faster she will run away.
Yes.
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The reasons tensions rise when you know you will see her is because you know you cant hold back and she knows that as well. No matter what the situation you seem to either preach, scold or bring up some sort of R talk.
I didn't preach or scold or bring up R talk until I got tired of her attacking me.
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The mere fact that your W's first question was "who is paying" should have sort of been a red flag that her intent was not to honor your daughter but to establish boundaries right off the bat.
That is a good point.
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As long as there is an OM/OW in the picture NOTHING will happen and you will be looked at as a HUGE obstacle to the WAS happiness. Plain and simple. So bringing up the OM to your W only made her look at you (again) as the obstacle to her happiness.
I know it.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
