IMHO, print these out to take with you. Call your C ahead of time and let him/her know that this is coming. Tell your C what YOU want and need - point blank level with the C.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
