I called her and asked if you liked the card and she said it was sweet but she is just tired of talking about our R everyday.
Quote:
"Thank you for trying. Actions are louder than words. I am spending this time to work on myself and be more independent. You have to give me time. I don’t know how much time."
So when you were coaching wresting did you just talk about goals or did you have a plan to achieve the goals then set about doing what you need to do. Read "No More Mr Nice Guy" (NMMNG). She really does not want flowers from you now.
Coach, I used to make my wrestlers write down their goals at the beginning of each season. They would have to tape them to the inside door of their locker and read them before practice.
I need some goals but I am just not clear on what they should be and how I will show her my actions are louder than words. It seems like I am training for a match that will never happen.
I think I am going to take my laptop to the bookstore today. Look for some books (the one you recommend) have some coffee and study on how to be a better husband.
Her last email to me a few minutes ago:
"I can’t give you what you need for a timeline. I can’t make any promises. That’s not fair to you or me. I’m not doing anything but working on myself right now. This is not all about you. It is about ME. There is no one else, no need for any of that. This is MY time. I am doing what I want when I want and how I want. I don’t have the time or patience to want or need someone else. I want to love myself, that’s all. Enough for today please."
