We've got our own laundry thing. I've never understood why laundry is such a big deal.
At the beginning of our M, W wanted to do my laundry. I told her she didn't have to, I'd take care of my own. I don't know, just kind of felt that it shouldn't be something for her to mess with - it just didn't feel right to me because I didn't want it to turn into an expectation.
So - when she dropped the bomb, of course, one of the big things was she wasn't going to do my laundry anymore. She HATED doing my laundry, having to fold it, put it away, etc. etc. and she always thought I generated too much of it. How did this backfire on me?? I didn't want her to do it in the first place!!
So, now I'm back to doing my own laundry, even as our relationship heals I think this is going to be permanent, which is fine with me.
Speaking of which, I hope I have clear underwear for tomorrow.
You know what really drives me nuts, though, is that when my MIL visits SHE insists on doing my laundry. Actually, that's not even accurate, because she doesn't even ask - she just sneaks in, finds all my dirty underwear and washes it. AAARRRGGGHHH!!!
Yes, men are very particular on who washes their clothes.
