The anger and bitterness means you haven't emotionally detached enough yet. We've been apart for five months now but on four occasions I've asked her to consider counseling, a marriage class, something.

The rejection this last time was so harsh it actually helped me "cut the cord." I've got it worked out now that I won't have to see her until Halloween at the earliest. After that, I may not have to see her again until ... I'm not sure.

The less I see her the better I feel. She calls and texts about scheduling stuff. Luckily, I see our girls every day after school so I don't have to rely on W for updates. I hear about their day before she does.

Personally, I don't know if she'll think of you at all on Sunday. You will be on your way when you don't think of her on the weekend.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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