HBH..You are a step ahead of me, but I also have a WAW in progress. She's not having an EA (to my knowledge), but she says she doesnt love me any more and needs independence, to take care of herself, etc. We are in MC, but there is no affection or closeness around the house. We are existing as friends, which I have gotten good at in recent weeks. It's not easy, but it does seem to help me to not be a moping desperate mess all the time. W seems to like the space as well...she's been asking for it for months, I guess I didn't know what she meant until now.
Two sessions into MC, but just sharing with the MC where we're at at this point...that she doesn't love me and needs to be independent, and that I love her and want to find out if we can identify the problems and repair our marriage. She says her mind is open to counseling. Time will tell. I agree....these situations are so cofusing.
