In a lot of situations...the WAS is going to find every bit of dirt she can to make themselves look like a victim and the spouse as a bad person. So smearing them! Sometimes it is real stuff (I.E. a spouse financially cutting the other off or physical abuse) and other times it is perceived harm that is not fact (I.E. Ayk paid off the car in an attempt to control me). There are plenty of examples of WAS's coming up with completely crazy accusations during divorce (I.E. a WAS bringing up a disorderly conduct charge 12 years in the past against the LBS's father...so the LBS might be unfit to see his children)...crud like that.
Divorce is business and that is how you will need to face it. Purely business...you won't know what she is going to accuse you of or even if she will! In either case you need to be prepared.
You still DB...but now you have two paths to walk at the same time.
