WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW WOW I can't even begin to tell you how happy I am for your sitch to be working itself out--good work, you've done a great job at working things out with wolfie and he's done a super job wanting to make things work with you--I can tell you both are truly committed and so glad he came home with a gift!!! Can we all come to the wedding???!!!! Here here!!! I can't say enough how much I've admired your strength and tenacity through all this and it never ends, but sounds like you and wolfie have a solid foundation from which to build upon. I love the wicked witch analogies and wish a house would drop on my OW in San Diego--heck I'd settle for car trouble when she drives up here over thanksgiving! Oh well, I can't make it happen--although I'd sure love to try!!! Anyway, I hadn't stopped by in awhile to post, but wanted to give you "cheers"!!! Take Care!