Journaling:
We had our first MC session today. It was a lot of the counselor gathering history. My W did say she was 90% sure she wants us to work. She said she realized that she has done a lot of damage to our relationship and wants to regain my trust.

When asked what caused my reprioritizing of my life. I said I had taken my family for granted. When I was faced with the real chance that I could lose it, I realized what was really important.

We both left in a good mood, so I would call it a successful session. We have a long ways to go. My "homework" is to determine what W could do to show me that she is committed to our relationship. For those of you that have gone through this, what did your S do that really helped in rebuilding trust in the relationship?


Me: 36, W: 33, M: 10 yrs
Bomb: 1/09, Seperated: 9/09, Piecing Begins: 10/09

My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...t=91&page=1