Advice on DB-ing when sep spouse lives at home

[trustingfaith]

Will do.

[trustingfaith]

How is this for a good MLC song?

Come Back To Me
David Cook

You say you gotta go and find yourself
You say that you're becoming someone else
Don't recognize the face in the mirror looking back at you

You say you're leaving as you look away
I know there's really nothing left to say
Just know I'm here whenever you need me I'll wait for you

So I'll let you go, I'll set you free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you, come back to me

Take your time, I won't go anywhere
Picture you with the wind in your hair
I'll keep your things right where you left them
I'll be here for you

Oh and I'll let you go, I'll set your free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you, come back to me

And I hope you find everything that you need
I'll be right here waiting to see
You find you, come back to me

I can't get close if you're not there
I can't get inside if there's no soul there
I can't face you, I can't save you
It's something you'll have to do

So I'll let you go, I'll set you free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you, come back to me
Come back to me

So I'll let you go, I'll set you free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you, come back to me

And I hope you find everything that you need
I'll be right here waiting to see
You find you, come back to me

You find you, come back to me
When you find you, come back to me
When you find you, come back to me


© STELLAR SONGS LTD;

[Fallgirl]

"I can't get close if you're not there
I can't get inside if there's no soul there
I can't face you, I can't save you
It's something you'll have to do"

That verse in particular rings so true for me!

Dunno bout the bit of being here if/when he decides to come back though!

Hope you`re well TIF!

[cat04]

TIF,

That is a beautiful song. And I just love David Cook.

In some ways though it is very sad, and I echo FG in the dunno department.

But that is to be decided when it is. Right now, I'm great and that is what is important.

[trustingfaith]

I guess I am still in the "wait for you" department. For now anyway.

My H seems to be doing absolutely terribly this week, like I have never seen before. He has a big week at work and this is stuff he loves that he normally gets excited and energized by. I have never seen him act as down as he is now, at least for this long a period of time. Seems like he may be starting at least on some level to face his inner demons but who knows.

And yes I realize that this is a long haul and that it is his to fix and deal with but it is hard to watch. I struggle with knowing how much/if at all to reach out to him, not to fix or make suggestions but to just be. But then again, he knows where I am if he needs me.

Meanwhile, I am having an insanely busy week which is good. Keeps my mind off thinking too much! The kids and I are having fun and have some good stuff lined up for this weekend.

[fisherman]

The kids and I are having fun and have some good stuff lined up for this weekend.

Good for you. Stay upbeat and even keeled.....

and keeping rockin out!! Even if it's to David Cook. (I'm kidding about that last part.) Sort of.

[Mach1]

But then again, he knows where I am if he needs me.

Yes he does.....




Trapt, you little Detroit punk....

Other than firin' the girls up here this morning....


How ya doin ?

[fisherman]

Pretty darn good I suppose.

I'm still playing back and forth on the emails.

[Grace_O]

I'm still playing back and forth on the emails.

Mafia wars? (she asks innocently, batting her eyes..)

[trustingfaith]

I got an invitation to join some rollercoaster ride application on FB. I declined - the rollercoaster ride I am on now is more than enough! And right now it seems to be moving up and down at the same speed as a "real" ride.