Thanks Puppy. This is going to be a difficult decision for me. My W has already done some things I never expected her to....most notably going on a date with OM while I watched our son. She hasn't done anything with our finances...but if she does, it will already be too late to react.

We've been uncomfortably living together & avoiding any S or M discussions for a week now. We both HATE confrontation so that's probably why neither of us wants to initiate the discussion.

I know it needs to be done...and I'll try to have this discussion before the weekend.


Me-39
W-31
S-4
Bomb- 9/5/09
Discovered EA- 9/15/09
Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09
W moved out 10/31/09