I really appreciate all the advice. I am starting to read this site several times during the day now.
After she went to bed last night, I went downstairs and watched a movie called "Fireproof". It was a great movie about a marriage gone bad and how the husband wins his wife back. I am not very religious but I am a christian and the movie was based on christian principles. There was a quote in the movie that I liked:
"Never leave your partner alone, especially in a fire".
I made a homemade card last night after the movie and wrote some promises in it. Then I went out to our garden and got a red rose and picked off the pedals. I put the card and rose pedals on her dresser while she was sleeping. She got up this morning and got ready for work and left again without saying anything to me. I called her and asked if you liked the card and she said it was sweet but she is just tired of talking about our R everyday.
I sent her this email a few minutes ago, after she said she would at least think about spending some time with me again but she needs to think about it first:
"Thank you. I really am working hard on myself and I want you to share that with you. I love you with every inch of my soul! I will win you back and show you I can be an awesome, fun, loving, sweet, husband. I want to study you and learn more about you than I already know, so I can treat you the way you need to be treated."
She responded:
"Thank you for trying. Actions are louder than words. I am spending this time to work on myself and be more independent. You have to give me time. I don’t know how much time."
