Do I make sure when she comes back to my stick that the plate is gone (ie. I keep doing the 180, GALing and drop the rope) so there is nothing there to spin? The only thing that is left for her is the OM plate?
Yes, exactly. But you don't do it to get a REACTION out of her; you should be GENUINELY going out and doing things for YOU that you've always wanted to do.
She needs to wonder if she hasn't already lost you.