In another thread someone asked about "K" versus "okay" wondering what they meant. I've spent too much time worrying about things like that and realized it isn't worth the anxiety to care. I thought I'd try to make her wonder a little. You never know.
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Maybe I'm over analyzing but I think I'm just being aware of my behavior and how it effects her (and ultimately others). It seems obnoxious to focus on a short text conversation but I think by doing that I'm getting a better understanding of where I'm at and where I need to be.
ahhhh.... yeah.... over analyzing? just a wee little bit.
hate to tell you this but the difference between 'K' and 'OK' amounts to 'O' the difference didnt have any meaning when you met your wife, didnt have any meaning when you married her and it still doesnt have any meaning.
you started this thread about no contact and detachment and really went down hill from there. I'm curious,
sandi asked a question that i dont see got answered:
Originally Posted By: sandi2
How long have you gone with absolutely no contact what-so-ever since being S from her?
Why do you think she is in MLC?
how long really? the "3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M." just out of curosity how much pressure did you put on her in the first week that she asked for a divorce? and why are you not honoring this 3 month seperation still to this day? by Tracking her down at parties, texting her, disrespecting her request for no-contact...
If she is out dating now, no amount of begging, pleading or pressure is going to save your marriage, definitely not a 2nd time.
