If you think you need to move home, then move home. I cannot put a value on the support system I have now that I am back with family. I have a cousin who calls and invites me to go out with her, and with my parents in town, I have free, eager babysitters when I want some 'me' time. Of course that is counterbalanced with the impact the move would have on D4...would it substantially impact her time with your H? It sounds like he spends limited time with her as it is...
I get similar things from my H. He spends pretty much exactly the time he feels like spending with us, then does his own thing the rest of the time. But then tells me how he cries b/c he misses his kids...
Maybe it will take you moving for him to see what he is losing/has lost. Not that you would move as a tactic, I am just saying if moving is best for you then go for it. Are there job opportunities back home for you??
((W2G)) Missed ya...
Oh! Since I posted first, I will take a vanilla latte from Starbucks please...
Last edited by BobbiJo; 10/15/0902:58 PM. Reason: forgot my drink!
