I disagree guys,
at one point you detach so much when your WAS is so disrespectful that you really don't care anymore, that's the problem I'm dealing with now, after so much disrespect, now that she is trying to be nice, it's like whatever, I spent too much time & energy into this and my body didn't like the stress it was under during the process, I would rather just disconnect and not be affected anymore. Not as much anger but it's more apathy now, more like, do whatever you want, it just helps me disconnect even more.

SP is that accurate with you?