Trust your instincts. Has she taken out a bunch of money? If she hasn't I wouldn't push it until you are ready.
Only thing she's done is cash in a nice chunk of her 401K...which she told me about ahead of time...and she opened up a new checking acct to deposit it into. She cashed in more than I would've expected though. She hasn't touched any of the joint funds & has kept up on paying our normal monthly bills.
Last edited by etrain; 10/15/0902:06 PM.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09