So the way he is acting is not normal? I mentioned therapy to him..honestly if I made the appointment I am not sure if he would go or not. I deal with anxiety issues and he thinks (his words not mine) I am pathetic because I cannot control myself. Why do you think there is no OW? Last night, he came to me again..not D talk since Saturday. He said where do you want me to sleep and I said you can sleep here. he said I can sense you are annoyed with me and I said I am fine. then he said will you turn toward me and I said I am watching tv right now..he acted like a baby and said never mind I am getting up and I said okay..he came back..but then our D came down stairs, I went to lay with her and I feel asleep..this morning he was really not nice at all to me. I just do not know WHAT is going on..I know he does not love me and that is what makes this so frustrating and hurt..it is like this is a game and he is not winning so he gets mad..I know I need to detach but it is hard. Help!