texted W and asked what she wanted to talk about last night.
Pursuit. Needy/grabby. Don't do this!
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She said she was having a problem w/ Ds and wanted to give me one. I didn't reply.
Passive-Aggressive! You text her, she gives you the courtesy of a prompt reply, and then you IGNORE HER?? Not good.
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If she falls apart what do I do? Even if I have the capability to clean up her mess I still don't get my W back. But if I leave her to the chaos and refuse to help, then I'm insensitive.
DON'T RESCUE. "This is your mess; you need to clean it up" should be your mantra. Consequences.
