I guess you can't really be detached anymore since you are reconsiling.

It must be pretty unnerving. I wouldn't stop GALing though. It may give you something else to focus on as well as make you more interesting to your W.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.