I wanted to be more of a strict parent and try to steer her away from trouble. And it's REALLY hard now NOT to tell XW "I told you so"; I did plenty of that already. All I can do now is try to help.
Definitely avoid I told you so. That ship has sailed, only thing you can do now is work twice as hard to get it back on course.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
