I am sorry to hear what happened. I so want to point out....as much as it hurts...you are handling it much better than you would have three weeks ago. Find the positive in a negative situation...and that is a huge positive my friend....just huge.
Hopefully others will chime in with their thoughts, but mine are such. You have two paths to follow at the same time.
1)-Continue to DB and improve yourself....everyday it is evident how much stronger you are getting
2)-Begin to work on the legal aspects of your divorce....you need to protect yourself. If your wife decides to try and smear you across the street....you need to be ready to protect yourself.
Both can be done at the same time....just don't let yourself slip into her games.
