Ehhhh, the moment I took control of my direct deposit and denied XW access to my cash, was seen as a 'hostile takeover' of sorts and really pushed her over the edge. Couple that with the 'bravado confidence' of speaking with a L this early on, would tell me history is about to repeat itself, except it's your grief this time etrain.
That's exatly why I haven't done anything with our joint funds yet. I'm worried W will take it as a declaration of war. All I've done so far is opened up a new checking account, just in case I need it.
Another day has passed w/o us having the S discussion regarding custody, finances, etc. She did discuss some personal problems her sister is having so at least she sort of confided in me about that. Then she headed out to her sister's house for a couple hours...if that's where she really went. There was a small charge from a local bar from last night in her checking acct. Maybe W & her sister went for a drink to talk things over. Maybe not...who knows. With the exception of the convo about her sis, W was acting a little "colder" towards me last night & this morning. OM problems, perhaps.
And I had a rough morning...right to the bathroom when I woke up...if you know what I mean. Only worse than usual. This is really affecting me physically. I couldn't even eat this morning but I'm trying to force myself to eat some grapes right now.
Me-39 W-31 S-4 Bomb- 9/5/09 Discovered EA- 9/15/09 Found "proof" that EA is most likely a PA- 10/8/09 W moved out 10/31/09
