Well, I feel better today. I'm not sure it will stick, but I will try.
My FIL emailed me to say that my W came to their house last night and was pretty sad, confussed and angry. I'm okay with the first two, not the third.
He said by the time he got there, she had calmed down.
He thought this was good. He said she needs to go through the process to determine what it is she needs to do.
I'm still hanging on to that single word "think". She said "I don't think I could love you again, at least not the way I did". Am I wrong to see hope in that? I didn't show any emmotion when she said it. I just said I understood.