I think this statement says it all T:
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I can't imagine ex coming back and even tolerating the new me.

You have used this very painful experience to grow whilst your XH has just floundered (like mine).
Be good to yourself. I know you think of him less but I was still surprised to see you put that you think of him 2-4 times a day.

Have you asked yourself if you do still want him back?


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15