In the early part of the S, I would have liked to have had much more reassurance, but he kept saying that going to a C to fix himself was his way of fighting for our R. What I saw at first was that he became even MORE self-centered, I've seen a lot of growth and change since then.
Mostly, I don't feel that I've done a great deal other than try to be patient and loving and consistant. The rest has been responding to the positive changes he has been making.
