Ummm, what were you hoping to achieve, Kevin? Did you expect her to agree with you? I'd have to say that for someone who claims to want to save their marriage, you have a pretty good knack for sabotaging it.
I think you need to decide what you want. Not what you think you should want, or what you think someone expects you to want. What do you want? Because right now, your words here don't match your actions, or your words to her.
