It's too hard sometimes

[bluerain]

You dont be there to rescue her. I also think that if you have 2 kids (did I read that right?), splitting them up during a separation is a terrible cruel thing to do. Their sibling is their only constant right now, you cant take that away.

Kids react when their parents are separated, that is probably why shes having a hard time with them. Maybe if she cant handle it, is it possible for you to take both of them? I really think that splitting them up is NOT the right thing to do.

I guess I dealt with the betrayal by knowing that he was screwing his life up royally and it would make him miserable for a long, long time. And you know what? That is exactly what happened. His A crumbled, he got in a lot of trouble at work, and he has been very unhappy for the last 19 months.