She has now gone twice to a IC that I've been meeting with for a while now. I don't know if she'll keep going now that I've left the situation, but that's not my concern now.
I have been incredibly blessed by the support of those around me and fortunate enough to be surrounded by people who care, many of whom have been through divorces and are now in happy, committed and fulfilling relationships/marriages, and I've done my best to try and learn from their experiences, taking the good and avoiding from the "mistakes."
What I'm dealing with right now is a lot of conflicting feelings, including anger and wondering if maybe I'll just completely move on with my life and never look back... because I still love her, though, part of me believes that she's been brainwashed/manipulated by OM. I know him and he's a mental genius who perceives things and views just about EVERYTHING as a game... he told me that day that he's never not been able to do pretty much whatever he's wanted to with any woman he's wanted to because he knows how to manipulate, and this has been confirmed by his friends. The caring part of me really wants to be able to stop this somehow... to "out" him to W, or something... even though I can't.
