texted W and asked what she wanted to talk about last night. She said she was having a problem w/ Ds and wanted to give me one. I didn't reply.

Have a feeling some of her notions about "doing it on her own" may be crumbling.

If she falls apart what do I do? Even if I have the capability to clean up her mess I still don't get my W back. But if I leave her to the chaos and refuse to help, then I'm insensitive.

Last edited by M A Holm; 10/15/09 04:19 AM.
~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)