Yes. Things are fine, although I will say I'm in way more pain than I thought I would be. It's amazing, your entire body is tied to your core muscles. It hurts to laugh or turn my head too quickly.

Percocet is a wonder drug.

Nurses at the hospital kept asking if anyone was with me today and who would be picking me up. One looked at chart, noticed my W's insurance was covering the surgery and asked if we should call her when I was out of surgery.

No. I smiled at her. We're separated. A co-worker is picking me up.

That's the only downer today. Called the girls and said I was in too much pain to stop by. I still plan on having them for the weekend, but if we go out in public there's no way I can catch them if they take off.

Called a couple of friends, including a high school classmate who has been helping me get through my situation -- she was divorced 10 years ago -- and who may go through it again. In her case, the husband is trying to make changes. She says she lost her trust in him and doesn't know if he can rebuild it.

That's where we left it. I wanted to tell her if he's trying she should give him a chance. People deserve second chances if they are willing to work at it.

And no call from W today.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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