So, I had that talk with him. Much to my surprise or should I say shock. He agreed with everything I said about loving each other, working on our R, setting new goals for us, ways we can make things better, etc. He even said the words, ILY. He also said that he's not texting the friend anymore and he understands how that bothers me. I was floored.
Fast forward to today. I know that he hasn't stopped texting the friend. In fact, it's escalating again. Today he mentions going out for lunch at work and says her name. They went for lunch together and he paid. He says this casually in company so I can't respond. He's angry and defensive. I don't know what to think.
WTH? How am I supposed to process this? Spy mode is really starting to seem smart.
