DID XH M OW or not??

[Silent Chrleader]

Hi (((peace))).

My STBXH's GF is supposedly a great person. A successful career woman. Minister's daughter, but shares a bottle of wine with him every night and likes to go to hockey games with him and his friends (I used to love doing that too, but STBXH wanted "guy time"!).

I don't know which is more painful...... yes, it hurts like he** that your XH destroyed the family over a skank..... but it makes it easy to hate her!! In my sitch, she so nice and my S18 thinks she "cool"..... and I hate it and want to tear her hair out, so I look like the emotional basket case!

As for your BF..... just take it slow and easy. Remember, you don't have to make all your life decisions today. Don't let fear jip you out of something potentially wonderful if it grows..... on the other hand, you don't have to jump in hook, line and sinker either. One day at a time.

And just because everything is "fun, easy and almost perfect" doesn't mean it's not real..... at least I sure hope not!!

Take care.