"Cool. Now I know the appropriate behavior in response to a death in the family."

See.. now you have to define "death". What does that word mean in your ""

"This is amazing to me. As much as I am a supporter of marriage, this support for a man who has wreaked so much havoc and brought so much damage is a complete surprise to me."

I follow the poster. I have been directed to do so. If I don't I may loose my posting privilege.

At the same time.. I am gonna post what I feel. I am gonna throw some "emotion" at it. Cause that is me.

"On the other hand, my guess is that some of you would be encouraging K in ANY relationship that she would be considering right now. Honestly now, if K were deciding whether or not to jet off to NY to explore a relationship with a new person, wouldn't some of you be encouraging her every bit as strongly?"

Been there.. done that.

Now What?

You are slipping Bill.. things must be good.

"See, I don't think some folks here are exactly pro-K's husband and second chances. I think they just want you to be happy and in a relationship again."

To a point he is the "one". Just ask her. Or just read back on the post's that Lan links. It's all "here".

"Do Work ® (Cory)"

See.. you got it right that time.

"Actually my instict says to go ahead and try/do."

Hmm..

"So, I did. Laid out some specific things today and asked for an immediate response, max in a few days."

Fail! It has not worked.. it will not work. You can do better.

You are just "scared".

Its normal. It's expected.

Walk like "YOU" would.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.