This whole thing about whether div is harder on men or women will get us nowhere. Every sitch is different but nobody gets out without a few scars.
Odog is getting by but might have to move to a smaller rental place. Didn't get rich from this by any means or measure.
Odog is angry right now about how the she thinks about his income. The She is a L and the dog is a webbie. Its been planned this way since the early days of skool but now the looks her nose at the dog.
The She is angry because she has to pay a small amount of child support each month (let's say the amount is equal to a typical family cable/internet package which by the way the dog doesn't have) and thinks that "a real man" would refuse to take it. Eff-Eeuuww!
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh