I agree with you about the WAS revisiting a certain time period and issue.
I feel like my WAS is revisting the time period after her mother's death. She had a difficult time dealing with it. Her mother's death occurred 15 years ago. Actually, I don't think she has dealt with those issues at all. That's why her new boyfriend reminds me of the boyfriend she had after her mother's death. That is also the time period when she began to experiment with drugs. I think she is doing them now.
Concerning your wife, sounds like OM #3 might not be in her future. She is still partying. But, she is beginning to reconnect with you a bit. How is she doing in terms of reconnecting with your D's?
In my opinion, the OP must be someone that has issues themselves. In your case, how must have the OM felt showing up to MIL's with your wife and children? Must have low self esteem? Or, just someone who doesn't give a sh it?
My WAS has no problem visiting OM's two children every other weekend. Yet, spends one day a week at the most with our son. I find that quite odd.
