he was back, i think

[lost-n-Iowa]

Hey doodles...That sounds so crappy. I have no other word for it right now.

My advise to you is to put that paper down or away somewhere for 24 to 48 hours. Don't try to do the paperwork (unless there is a specific reason that you need to have it done immediatly)while your emotions are everywhere.

You have a right to be angry, streesed, shocked, and whatever else your feeling right now. I say deal with rebutting that paper in a couple of days after you have had time to clear your head, so you can think of the answers and where to get the evidence that you need to be able to rebut the lies.

I found this to work for me after I would get a file full of lies from my daughter's sperm donor. I realize that a custody hearing may have different aspects to it than what your case has in it with all the finacial, the divorse, custody(?), and the OW involved, but I would assume that our emotions are pretty close to each other's.

Your H is lying to the judge cuz he is living in his fairy tale world still. You are finally reading what his side of the M is in his and the OW's mind. It may hurt to read it and it may make you angry, but now you can see what their 'distorted look at reality' is.

Chin up girl. Take a day to play with your son and not look at that paper.

Hugs to you!!