. The key here is: it is midlife, you both urgently want to move forward in way that will make your future more fulfilling, and neither of you know yet what that looks like, and old hurts obscure the possibility of you making your good futures together.
So this means? I am supposed to live my life and hope w figures out what she wants? Whose old hurts? Mine? Hers? It would be so simple to end any "old hurts" I have.. But how can I know of any hurt I caused my wife without 1.Asking her and 2. Her letting me know? One minute everyone tells me that wife and I need to talk... the next I am not soposed to talk R I know I have come along way but I swear if I had to do this over again I would have just exposed everything right from the start. This is like taking a band aid off really slow. I say rip that sucker off and get it over with….
Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
