If you're still treating him like the king in his castle, why should he change his behavior? Standing for your M is one thing. Standing while he wipes his feet on you is another.
Next time why don't you make dinner for yourself and if he's surprised you didn't make him one, just look surprised and say that there was some instant macaroni in the cupboard if he was hungry.
Or go out with your friends to someplace fancy and treat yourself. He doesn't need to know who you're going out with. You're showing that you're always going to be there no matter what he does. And obviously it's not working.
So what are you going to do differently?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.