I've been getting out but not really being mysterious. Hope, you're right. That's when she started noticing.

I thought I would welcome her leaving. When I walked be her on the computer (during our S's birthday party tonight] and saw her looking at houses online (she tried to close it quickly) that rejected feeling came whooshing in.

She has to know I saw, but is acting like I didn't.

I hate the ignoring the elephant in the room stuff.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.