I don't see how your wives can see themselves as single when they are living under the same roofs as you guys. That galls me. Especially when I am sitting in an empty house, wishing I had my H back to share it with through thick and thin as we vowed.
They absolutely are not single if they are living in the same house as you, or not D. I know you are here because you want to save your marriages, but why not fight it in court for them to have to get a job to be able to afford their independent lives?
It just upsets me to much to see women cake eating like this off of good men who are trying to hold their marriages together. If they want out, they need to take the steps to do so - get their own places and finance it themselves. Grrrr!
