Hi Grace O, Most of my notes in the past have been 'lovey dovey'...but we have 21 years + of history so not sure what H makes of them.
H did see me writing last night in a journal(mine) and paused and said "You're not writing to me in the notebook are you?"- the notebook writing our therapist had suggested when conversations got too heated..and he was relieved to find out I wasn't.
Lunch was Ok today(we usually meet at home). Tonight is D14's 14th birthday so hopefully that will be a good distraction for all.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.