She doesn't love me anymore...or does she?

[Ready2Change]

Puppy is very wise (even at his young age). I recommend following his advise. Wisdom comes during the difficult times in our lives. You have a great opportunity for personal growth if you choose to take it.

The best thing I did was "Immerse myself into my kids lives" and committed to personal growth.

I don't know how to confirm this one way or the other without potentially having her find out, completely distrust me, and have us be totally done...above and beyond taking her word.

You have lots of choices. Make the best one for YOU and live with the natural consequences. I chose not to snoop to protect myself from more hurt. Some people chose to snoop so they know the truth. Cheaters always lie. That is part of the thrill.

You will always have a R with her based off of the children. I see MsR2C more now that we are D. The children tie us to them. I chose the high road. Set her free. Constantly forgive her, and found my happiness without her. I am extremely patient with her. I put the process into God's hands. We live in an ever constantly changing world and how she feels now is not how she will feel in the future.

Love = Patience and Kindness

Kindness = giving her what she needs (not what YOU want)