Not wanting to be on this boat........

[Buffet]

Another question....her birthday is this weekend, what is appropriate to do? Usually, we would get a babysitter, dinner, etc..But I know that is not going to be an option this year. Our anniversary was 2 weeks ago and she did not even mention it that day in spite of flowers being sent to her office, and a card, dinner and gift waiting for her that night at home. Should I just get a card and say happy birthday, not acknowldege it at all, or something else?